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Simple exercises for getting started with Shadow Work

January 13, 2024
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Simple exercises for getting started with Shadow Work

Welcome to the third week of our series on Shadow Work. After looking at how to recognize and deal with your own shadow, today we would like to introduce you to some simple exercises that will make it easier for beginners to get started with Shadow Work.

1. Journaling: exploring the shadow

Keeping a journal is a great way to explore thoughts and feelings that may belong to the shadow. Start by writing down your feelings, thoughts and reactions to different situations on a daily basis. Pay particular attention to strong emotional reactions or recurring patterns.

Exercise

  • Reflect on triggers: When you feel angry, sad or frustrated, ask yourself, "What triggers these feelings and why?"

  • Write down dreams: Record your dreams and consider what messages or themes might be reflected in them.

2. Dialog with the shadow

This exercise involves engaging directly with aspects of your shadow by having an imaginary dialog.

Exercise

  • Find a quiet place and relax.

  • Imagine an aspect of your shadow - perhaps a characteristic that you reject or hide.

  • Have an inner dialog: Ask why this aspect is there and what it wants to tell you.

    This exercise involves engaging directly with aspects of your shadow by having an imaginary dialog.

3. Mindfulness meditation

Mindfulness meditation can help to sharpen your awareness of the moment and bring unconscious thoughts and feelings to light.

Exercise

  • Sit down for 10-15 minutes a day to meditate: Focus on your breath and observe without judgment what thoughts and feelings arise.

  • After the short meditation phase, in which you center yourself and calm down, pick up a journal. Write down unfiltered thoughts and feelings that arose during the meditation. Reflect on what you have written afterwards to recognize possible connections to your shadow.

4. Creative expression

Creative activities such as painting, writing or playing music can help to express and explore unconscious aspects of the self.

Exercise

  • Choose a creative activity that you enjoy.

  • Express your feelings and thoughts through this activity without worrying about the end result.

  • Have an inner dialog: Ask why this aspect is there and what it wants to tell you.

    This exercise involves engaging directly with aspects of your shadow by having an imaginary dialog.

Final thoughts

These exercises are just the beginning of your journey into Shadow Work. They can help you develop a deeper understanding of yourself and take the first step towards integrating your shadow. In the next post we will look at more advanced techniques.

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